Putting the needs of others before your own can be an honorable thing. Sometimes though, the lines can get blurred. Like when you’re a parent, or in ministry, or you are in a place or position where you are constantly meeting needs, you might find you’ve forgotten your own needs. Maybe you can’t remember the last time you had a good night’s sleep, or ate a proper meal, or even had a full glass of water.
“But I want to be more like Jesus!” I feel you, I do too. But if we are giving for a living, we need to remember to fill up. What I mean by fill up is to take care of ourselves in the natural and in the spiritual. Even God rested on the 7th day of His work. If rest was necessary to God it’s necessary to you.
Many times we find ourselves giving out of our own need. I know there have been seasons when I needed something, but I had to give it first, I needed a friend, but I had to be one first. But when all we are doing is giving and not stopping even once to fill our own cup, eventually we run empty and find ourselves stranded, and in some cases we cease to really live.
Recently my husband has turned a new leaf. He pulled out his old running shoes, put them on, and just ran. He started changing his diet and drinking more water. The result is he’s sleeping better, he’s more energized and alert. He’ smiling and laughing more. He’s happier. Even his skin is glowing! He’s filling his cup back up. He’s taking better care of himself and I love it, because I love him. I want him to be around for as long as possible and when he takes care of himself, he’s taking care of us. He’s taking care of business.
Taking care of business shouldn’t be a thought for just your boss, or your family, kids, spouse, etc. It includes you. You are a human being with the same needs you are helping to meet in others. In the midst of your daily hard work, don’t forget to help yourself. Treat yourself. Pray for yourself. Do for yourself what you would do for your loved ones. Okay, you read this whole thing, now go take a nap J
“By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work.” Genesis 2:2 (NIV)