Friendships are key and a lot of times they are a reflection of who you are. I am finding as I get older that true friendships, which are solid, are a treasure. I truly treasure my friendships as they are the people that carry me through the hard times and celebrate the good times. We are not meant to go through life alone and Jesus always surrounded himself with close friends. His disciples were is backbone to help him in everyday life. Friendships build that community for you and they shape the person you are.
Since friendships do have such an impact and influence in our lives and that is why it is wise to choose friends that will build you up and guide you to God’s truth and love. Proverbs speaks a lot about friendships and what type of friendships to have. Proverbs 27: 6 says, “Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.” Just think, your true friends that stick with you are the ones you can trust to be honest with you about areas you need to maybe grow in as a person. Those friends may share things that you need to work on and hold you accountable, and it can be hard to hear like a wound you’ve gotten when you fall, but it is worth the pain to refine you into the person God desires. Now opposite are those friends that can be deceitful and only looking out for themselves trying to tear you down. These friends may seem they have your best interest at heart, like kisses you feel love from, but in the end they just want to take advantage of you. The enemy wants nothing more than to see you fail and that love is meaningless. Unlike a sincere friend who is always wanting the best from you and sees “you” for “you.”
Therefore, pray and ask God to give you wisdom on your friendships. It is so important because the type of friends you are invested in does speak volumes of your life. Proverbs 27:9 and 17, “the heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense. As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.” Having that wise friend that brings out the best in you is key and gives you strength! Don’t settle for anything less when you look for friendships because these genuine friends are built to last. Look to those biblical friendships as they are a reflection of who you are and what you value. It takes time to find and invest in those lasting friendships but it is worth it to know you have friends that have your back!