Take just a moment and pause on this phrase. If something is to grow, it has to be covered and protected in an environment that nurtures what is necessary for it to become bigger than the seed itself. What are you covering that is causing you to grow weariness in your life? What seeds are being nurtured under the surface that is feeding the feeling of doubt and hopelessness? As women we can very easily cover the seed of disappointment, hurt, rejection, etc. and from the outside everything looks good but the Bible cautions us to not grow weary. Growth is an interesting facet of life. You can’t see it all too easily with the naked eye but it’s a process where every moment contributes to its increase. What are you trusting God for that seems as though you’re constantly getting the “red light” or a flashing neon sign that screams at you, “Not now”? It can be difficult to wait for a promise to be fulfilled but just like natural growth, the spirit of weariness can grow and develop without ever “seeing” it take place. You know how it goes, ladies. You stay busy with your work, your family, and your hobbies so you don’t have to think about those unfulfilled promises and if you’re not careful you’ll entertain thoughts of doubt and discouragement and within time it produces the fruit of weariness. Have you ever been so tired and fatigued that nothing made sense? Your vision was blurry and your words lacked meaning? When our spirits our weary, our vision is affected, we speak from our situation or how we feel versus the Word and there isn’t much that makes sense to us in those moments. So then, how can we guard ourselves from growing weary?
1) Protect your thought life; what you meditate on becomes your reality.
As a man THINKETH so is he (or she). Your thought life is like a GPS, whatever information you choose to input into the program determines the direction of your journey.
2) Be mindful of your company.
Ever heard the saying, “Misery loves company”? Some people find pleasure in wallowing in self- pity and apathy tends to be the greatest form of entertainment and excitement. Be cautious of this. To bring balance to this, be mindful of those who are only “yes” people in your life but dare not caution you of the bigger picture. It is imperative to have those in your life that can encourage you and speak the truth in love so that there is a healthy balance. My mom had a friend who was excellent at this. Whenever my mom was facing a hardship her friend, who was also my godmother, would tell her, “Cry about it…go ahead…cry! Get it out of your system”. Then when she was done she would say, “Okay, we’re done now, what do we do to fix it and move on?” I love that! If you only cry and never move to a solution, you’ll exhaust not only yourself but also everyone around you. However if you NEVER cry and confront the hurt, or disappointment, you’ll grow weary from the weight and pressure building behind the scenes.
3) Watch that mouth!
There is creative power in our words. We have the ability to produce life or death by what we say. Guard your words and if it is not edifying, it is not worth wasting breath on. Not only do we need to be mindful of what we say but also mindful of what others speak over our life! Words create “worlds”. For example, if you continue to say you’re tired, the more you say it, the more tired you become. Confession is powerful!
4) Find your strength in Him.
In His presence there is FULNESS OF JOY (Psalm 16:11) and we know that we obtain our strength through the joy He provides! (Nehemiah 8:10) Be encouraged ladies, God is faithful to His promises! Write these power verses down and feed your faith and watch doubt, defeat and weariness die! Psalm 28:7 (Amplified Bible) “The Lord is my Strength and my [impenetrable] Shield; my heart trusts in, relies on, and confidently leans on Him, and I am helped; therefore my heart greatly rejoices, and with my song will I praise Him.” Psalm 84:11 (Amplified Bible) “For the Lord God is a Sun and Shield; the Lord bestows [present] grace and favor and [future] glory (honor, splendor, and heavenly bliss)! No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly.” Galatians 6:9 (Amplified Bible) “And let us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faint.”